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[quote=Anonymous]I worry about my brother in law and the potential impact on us constantly. Unfortunately, he has reproduced, too. He's currently living under his parents' roof with his girlfriend and their 2 young kids. My father in law lost his job a couple weeks ago, too. I went to great length to make sure that our will was specific that our money would NEVER pass through his hands. If our little family were to die together, our money is going into a trust for our niece and nephew, who didn't ask to be born to those 2 idiots. When my husband found out that they were on food stamps and medicaid, he started talking crazy about giving them money - no, they'd just go blow it on booze and tattoos rather than feeding their kids or paying off their debts. Not to mention that our tax dollars already support those programs. We have tried and tried to get my in-laws to actually enforce some rules with them, especially with regard to finances. It is a lost cause, and I just hope that it never does become our problem. I fear them showing up on our doorstep someday with their kids in tow - I'd hate to have to tell them "your kids can stay, you can go find a shelter." I know I sound like a cold-hearted beyotch, but their hard times are absolutely their own fault. It has nothing to do with unfair circumstances - they couldn't make a good decision to save their lives.[/quote]
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