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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just found out I am having my fourth miscarriage in 16 months. I have no living children - have never gotten past 6 weeks of pregnancy. This pregnancy I even got a 6 week scan and had a healthy embryo with a good heartbeat, but it was all gone by 7 weeks. I'm not a candidate for IVF -all of my tests have come back normal and I actually get pregnant very easily. I've had pregnancies tested and my spouse and I both karyotyped. No genetic abnormalities- my Dr. told me if they have gotten those embryos from IVF and tested them they would have used them. I have heard stories about people having success with their 7th or 8th try and I though I would go three or four more rounds before talking about surrogacy. However, I'm starting to feel like that would be a waste of time. I'm 35 and my spouse is approaching 40. I had hoped to have two children, but would probably stop at one if we used a surrogate. Should we give it another year? Start now? For anyone who has used a surrogate, when did you decide to go that way? It is such a huge amount of money. We can manage it, but it would wipe out our regular savings. [/quote] Go to a fertility specialist. Ob Gyn often don’t test for same things. [/quote]
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