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[quote=Anonymous]I've noticed that the more I withhold sex/physical stuff, the more men are into me.

I just started "dating" a guy who is way out of my league. He's used to dating 20s hotties, while I'm a mid-30s single mom. I was upfront with him that I wasn't going to put out, I wasn't interested in flirting, I wanted to get to know him as a person first before getting physically involved. He's made a couple moves and I shut it down immediately.

Dude can't get enough of me. Calls me multiple times a day. Constantly wants to FaceTime or hang out. He cancels plan with other women to spend time with me, but has never cancelled on me.

Last night he admitted he likes that I'm not easy. He complains that the other women he's seeing are TOO into him, use sex to try to win him over, and can't hold a conversation without sexual undertones.

Looking back, the times men have been the most into me was when I had very strict rules about not getting physical too soon.

What's up with this, guys? Is it the thrill of the chase? Madonna/whore complex? You want what you can't have?

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