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[quote=Anonymous]I used frozen eggs. First thing I did was look for a Jewish egg donor - there were none so I gave up on that. (It's true most rabbis say that it is the gestational/birth mother that determines Jewishness but there are some ultra orthodox rabbis that have ruled differently - but that is not my community so not really an issue for me.) Second I screened for appearance. I definitely wanted some similar look to me. However personality was the deciding factor. Education ended up not being weighted as highly (chose a person with vocational school education (but she was top of her class - won awards - per profile and seemed bright). Could have chosen someone with a master's but the person I chose "felt right". It ended up being more of an instinctual/feeling based thing than a purely intellectual exercise of weighting various aspects. [/quote]
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