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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 45-year old divorced dad with an ES and MS kid. Shortly before Covid, I was starting to get back into dating more seriously, looking for a real relationship. I'm open to marriage but do not want to have more kids and do not want to blend a family or deal with someone else's kids. So, I was hoping to find someone who doesn't have and doesn't want kids.  (To be clear, I'm not looking for a woman to step into the role of being a mom to my kids; they have two fully engaged and capable parents. Sure, at some point, the relationship might become serious enough that they'd become part of my kids' life, but I'm not expecting that to be in a parental role.)  But the women I was meeting who are looking for a relationship all seemed to either have kids or want kids. Then Covid hit and I shut it down. But now I'm thinking about getting back into dating post-Covid and I'm kind of stumped. Am I looking for a unicorn or am I looking in the wrong places? Mostly I've met women through match.com and social functions.  Any advice? [/quote]

You want a woman who doesn’t want kids but is ok with your kids?  This would work if you were just casually dating but if you get serious, it’s no longer realistic to expect that she won’t have to deal with your kids.  Stick to casual dating or wait until your kids are out of the house, if you really mean what you are saying.  No woman who doesn’t want kids wants to become a stepmom. [/quote]

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