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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When you decided to have a baby with this man did you respect him? Does your child deserve a father? Many men are not especially good with infants but grow into the role as the child becomes more interesting and interactive. Now is not the time to be making big decisions when you are sleep deprived and overwhelmed. Many people go through a large adjustment when a new person enters the picture. If you were childless my answer would be different.[/quote]

No I didn’t respect him when I got pregnant, but I guess I was in denial about it. I have been trying to be happy with him since the beginning. I did love him so I didn’t settle in that sense but I settled on his character being one I can really respect and over time the love died. I still care for him as a person but not romantically. He is doing fine as a father, he is actually great with her. I’d have zero problem with 50/50 custody starting tomorrow and he would take it, so she would not be losing a father.

I have a lot of resentment about him as a husband. He is weak and has no problem offloading life’s big responsibilities on me. I feel like the man in our relationship and I’d rather be alone than bitterly resentful and for my daughter to see and feel that tone in the house.[/quote]

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