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[quote=Anonymous]I decided to stay. The thing is this from my experience. It's one thing for a man to cheat and have sex and a little fun and then try to work through it, but it's an entire different ball of wax when there are feelings involved. He said that he cut contact w/her, but I always wondered. Even having access to passwords, etc. is still an icky feeling because who wants to feel like that have to constantly check-in on what their spouse is doing? I stopped bringing up his affair once we decided to move past it and try to heal the marriage, but it was always there in the back of my mind. I had constant triggers. Places that we had never gone to, but they did and then he wanted me to go too. The mind movies are unreal. But again, I tried to push forward. Then out of the blue, he left to be with her again after two years of us reconciling. It was devastating in the beginning, but what a relief to not have to worry about him and her and them. I would never take a cheater back again. It was far too mentally draining for me. [/quote]

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