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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Like many of this MIL/FIL posts your problem sounds a lot more like the fact that you don't like your MIL and FIL than anything else.  Get over it.  These are the people who love your husband and your kids unconditionally.  You don't sound like you have a lot of love in you so you should be very happy that other people do and they're sharing it with the people in your family.[/quote]

Oh my this is so dramatic.  OP does see her MIL every other weekend which is fine.  OP also wants to see her family which she mentions she saw once, I'm sure she wants to see her friends, none of that means she doesn't like her MIL, it just means that she is happy with the amount of time they visit and doesn't want to be pressured into more time.

BTW we live 40mins from our families and we never stay over, its not that much of a drive however my MIL in the beginning also wanted us staying the whole weekend with them, its controlling, we were young and wanted our lives to be balanced, which is healthy.

To you family is everything, family is important however its good to also have other people in your life, other family, other friends and its really important to enjoy that couple time and build your relationship, in healthy families this is recognized and its not a big deal.[/quote]

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