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[quote=Anonymous]SIL (with whom I am close) miscarried a few days before hosting a baby shower for me this weekend. She did not want to cancel it, not participate, etc., and I had my own sister who was cohosting take charge during the actual event. I tried to give SIL some space over the last few days, while reaching out over text to let her know I'm thinking about her. Do I keep doing the same thing now? Something else? I wanted to send both her and my sister flowers as a thank you for the shower, but I don't know if some gesture like that now may actually be more painful (though if I send to her, I would focus the note on thinking about her and not my shower). Not a situation I would ever have imagined, and I am just not sure what is actually best thing to do for her. Any perspectives would be much appreciated. [/quote]
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