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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ds was 16.  I only know this because the girl's mother informed me.  [/quote]

How did that conversation go?[/quote]

It was...tense.  The kids were both 16 and had been dating for over a year.  They were mature, good kids who got straight As.  The mom found out because she found her daughter's pill pack.  The mother was crying and devastated that her 'little girl' was having sex, and wanted me to 'discipline' ds.  It turned out that the mother was extremely Christian and wanted her child to be 'pure' until marriage: ds had told me she was like 'Carrie's mother' before, but I thought he was exaggerating until this.  When the mother realised I wasn't going to punish my child, she started texting my ds some crazy things, such as the accusation that he had been responsible for 'safeguarding' the girl's purity and had instead 'exploited her.'

After this, the mother of the girl gave her a 4 pm curfew and wouldn't allow her out on weekends, and banned her from speaking to ds, so the relationship fizzled out.  Ds was devastated and humiliated.

Ds is now 23 and doing well in his graduate program, and happy with a new girlfriend we all love.  
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Wow that sounds intense. Sorry he/you had to go through that and glad he is happy now[/quote]

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