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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This will sound petty, but it's one example of many. I ordered Cava for my husband and me. He texted me the order, I placed it and picked everything up. When I got home, he took out the three dressings on the side and said, oh so this one is mine? [b]I reminded him that he didn't order dressing, but I ordered three on the side, so he could certainly have one. [/b]I told him I wanted to yogurt dill. He said, "that isn't dressing,' it's dip. They give that to you for the pita." I said, "well, they call it dressing, and I know because I placed the order and ordered it for my bowl." He then went on to inisist many times that it's "dip" and that we always get that automatically because it's for dipping the pita. I mean, over and over again. He has literally never placed an order at Cava (which, by the way, he pronounces with a short a and we all know he does that on purpose to annoy us, too). His bizarre insistence reached such comical heights that my 17-year-old son got pretty frustrated and told him he thinks he's crazy. It was as if he was trying to convince me of something that he knew (and I knew) just wasn't true. He does things like this more and more frequently. What is this? Is it NPD? I cannot figure out this strange behavior and I really don't like it.[/quote]

Thinking that line set him off. [/quote]

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