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[quote=Anonymous]OP this sounds a lot like my DH who is a good father but cant stop himself from spoiling our kids. It is more pronounced when he is working longer hours and Im guessing feels guilty. Since I knew I didnt want to do the extra presents/candy/screen time as a normality I made it seem like a reward so to speak. If you listen to mommy today Larlo then you can have the candy daddy brings home---if not it goes in a special bin and then you can try again the next day. I spend some time each weekend "thinning" the toys Larla is either done with or not interested in and then we donate it to a charity together (harder in pandemic times). I know daddy will allow them screen time when he gets home so I wait to use this time to cook dinner/clean/take a shower/exc. In the end, I just accepted that this was how my DH was and found a way around it that made it appear we were on the same page so the kids wouldnt whine constantly if that makes sense?[/quote]
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