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[quote=Anonymous]We aren’t even in the same book.

I’ve mostly given up on establishing any sort of rules or boundaries. We have one DD4.

I sleep trained her, H decided to start cosleeping. I cook healthy meals, he makes her a separate dish of mac and cheese. I minimize snacks so that DD will eat healthy food, he gives her candy multiple times a day. I tried to set appropriate toy limits, he buys her new ones multiple times a week (and now we have toys literally everywhere).

I just gave up on any sort of parenting because I’d deal with constant tantrums from both of them. There are days where it’s literally non-stop tantrums from DD all day long. I totally get that kids have tantrums, but it’s such a frequent thing that I don’t even want to be around DD anymore. I’ll pick her up from daycare and it’s nonstop crying for candy until dad gets home and he gives her some.

If I say anything to H, he gets upset that I’m controlling his parenting and tells me not to tell him how to raise his child.

When H goes out of town for a few days, or when I get DD out of the house away from him for a day, she’s actually very pleasant to be around and a lot of fun.

Anyone else been there? What did you do?[/quote]

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