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[quote=Anonymous]We have already committed to a cruise w/ DH's family during the 2ww. This will be our second time (first w/ FET) and last time I was very bloated and uncomfortable. We have decided not to tell DH's family about our journey to parenthood; they're just not understanding and, esp my MIL, are very judgmental. My MIL likes to comment on people's weight - I have heard her tell her daughters and she has made comments to me about weight gain, the importance of diet and exercise, etc. I want to play in the pool w/ my neices and nephews so I don't want an illness excuse. And I certainly don't want to feel guitly about indulging in desserts. I know she lacks boundaries but I'm too vulnerable right now; I want a gentle yet respectful "I'm fine and unconcerned." And it would be wonderful to have a pre-emptive comment, I don't know what that would be, but something about how I know I've gained some weight and am puffy but it's fine b/c .... TIA.[/quote]
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