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[quote=Anonymous]My hubby and I have issues! I need some advice. He bought a generator to run electricity when the lights go out b/c he has some amateur servers running (no big clients) in our basement and he is OBSESSED with keeping them up and running.

The generator cost about $700 and he did not ask me if he could buy it. We had an ENORMOUS blow out fight when he told me he bought it. To top it off, the lights went out during Hurricane Irene and he started up the generator. All hell broke loose -- we have a new baby (4 months) and my hubby turned on the generator and the whole house reeked of exhaust. It was so freaking loud, the baby and I could not sleep. I had to lock myself in a room with the baby and open the window (during a freaking hurricane) to avoid the exhaust smell. I could not drive anywhere b/c there was a hurricane!

Anyway, I was so upset, he denied the house smelled of exhaust, he called me crazy for freaking out and it was a nightmare.

Now I live in absolute FEAR of the lights going out b/c he will run the generator again.

I seriously fear for the health of my child and myself b/c of the fumes from the generator. He ran it outside, but the fumes are so intense, they came in the door even though it was closed.

What the hell do I do?

Do people need permits to run generators? can I call the police b/c I feel like my baby is in danger? Will they laugh at me? there is no domestic abuse, so I am not sure the police can do anything.

I truly hate my husband for this. This generator might lead us to a divorce. My priority is the baby and if protecting her health means a divorce than so be it.

How can i get rid of this generator or stop him from using it??? Someone give me some cleve ideas please!!![/quote]

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