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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you need to re-think your priorities.  First, how is it that you are 35 with no education and no savings?  Maybe you should focus on getting a job or working on an Associate's degree so that you can earn some money.  Putting your faith in a man to always earn all the money and never divorce you is foolish, and what if he gets sick or loses his job?  Also he may not tolerate you being a SAHM for the rest of your life.  What will you do all day when the children are in school?

Tell your parents that if grandkids are the priority, you need a small civil marriage as soon as possible so you can start trying to get pregnant.  Have a reception dinner with just family at a restaurant or home.  You can plan the bigger receptions for when COVID is over.  And who is paying for these two receptions?  Your parents need to think about what they are asking your man to pay for and whether it is reasonable.  You seem to have very high expectations for someone with no job, no savings, and no earning ability.

You are almost 35 already so there is no time to lose.  If you prioritize these receptions you will be 36 before you even begin trying to get pregnant.  Yes it works for some people, but for a lot of people it does not work.[/quote]

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