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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How will you pay for a wedding and honeymoon with no income or savings? [/quote]

Well it sounds like her boyfriend has money.  Maybe there is money in their families too.

1.  If you want to get married, get married.  have a small reception now and when Covid is more in control, you can have a big reception in your country of origin.  Don't worry about a honeymoon right now.  These things dont' matter in the grand scheme of getting married and really should not be weighing in on your decision to get married.

2.  Yes you want your name on the deed.

3.  It really doesn't matter what your parents or his parents want.  If you both want kids right away, start trying right away.  If you want to enjoy married life or get  your finances in order first, do that.  You two should be the only ones deciding when the right time to start trying is.

I say this nicely OP, but you need to become more independent before you get married or have kids.  Your entire thinking process if very juvenile and you seem to be very dependent on what others think. [/quote]

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