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[quote=Anonymous]If you personally don't care about the big wedding (and it sounds like you don't), I'd have a small ceremony with maybe 20 or so guests + important family and call it a day. Covid is the greatest excuse ever to elope - even in a foreign family with heavy expectations about a big wedding. Use the money that would have been the wedding fund (I assume your parents would help with that) to buy the house with the husband and get it in writing that your down payment/dowry whatever you want to call it is part of the home equity. So yes - your name would be on the title. Of course, I'd gently bring this up with the fiance before anyone else then you two can feel out the parents - would they be willing to forgo the big wedding in multiple countries for grandkids sooner. I suspect they would from your description.[/quote]
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