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Reply to "Dates Wanting to Know What You’ve Done to Work on Yourself or Asking You to Read Certain Relationshi"
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[quote=Anonymous] First, I agree that self-help and parenting books make handy trivets or doorstops, or possibly kindling. Second, these people you're dating can't guess *how* abusive your marriage was, and therefore don't know that recommending such books angers and triggers you. In their mind, when you say "abusive" they think "therapy" and then "let's recommend a book". Third, if you're really interested in one of these men, you could try explaining why such recommendations aren't helpful. It's likely they'll understand. And remember that a lot of men are less mature in this regard than women are. [/quote]
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