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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Time and fully accepting that forgiveness is for yourself, not the other person. 'Resentment is like drinking poison and hoping it will kill your enemy.'[/quote] Agree with this. Forgiveness is not letting the other person off the hook, or accepting that what they did was ok. It's deciding that you don't need an apology, even though you deserve one. They are broken, and therefore inconsequential to you future days and happiness. Right now you are still giving that other person all the power, OP. Why? Was this a romantic interest and you have a hope that somehow there can be reconciliation through a sincere enough apology? (I'm asking because I've been there. Spoiler alert: that is not going to happen.)[/quote]
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