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[quote=Anonymous]So what do they want you to do that you aren’t doing? I don’t think you need to “justify” not doing things now because you are you did stuff in the past and it wasn’t reciprocated. Just do what you feel you can do and decline the things you can’t or don’t want to do. For example if you are asked to host a baby shower, “I’m unable to help host right now, but I’m sure that will be a lot of fun for whoever can host it” and not “No, I’m not hosting because I hosted Larla’s three years ago and no one did anything for me.” There is ZERO benefit of bringing up stuff from the past. You will just sound bitter. [/quote]
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