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Reply to "I have to beg or ask my husband 50+ times for everything. what should I do? "
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[quote=Anonymous]You have to stop begging, it makes you look weak. Are you a SAHM? 1) Decide what hills you're ready to die on. For the decorating, it's unclear to me why you need to do it right now. It is probably equally unclear to him. If you have a reason, tell him the reason. If you don't have a reason, then why should it be a priority to him? 2) For the things that are really important to you, stop letting him get away with not following through on his commitments. Asking over and over and not imposing any consequences makes you look weak. Instead, don't let him off the hook. Stand firm and say "You agreed to do it today at 3, and I expect you to do it." 3) Pick things that will have consequences that he will feel. For example if he doesn't do the grocery shopping there won't be any dinner. [/quote]
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