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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Oh I dated one, and happy to answer any questions you might have, because a narcissist will F you up for a long, long time and they can also be a control freak.  They come on very strong in the beginning, make you feel like the center of the universe, romance you, take up all your time, slowly start to remove "the chaff" from your life - meaning all your less than "useful" friends, while trying to manipulate the "useful" ones, start making little comments to keep you in check and off balance, and slowly start to make you feel like you are going crazy and losing your mind, plays all kinds of manipulative mind games to make you feel insecure and unbalanced even if you were never insecure before.  And then all of a sudden, when they feel like you are not giving them the 200% adoration/attention that they desperately need at all times, they can switch everything off like a light switch.  [/quote]

Oh how to end a relationship with one - ending a relationship with a narcissist is excruciatingly painful.  The only way is to go no-contact, because they will still try to control you, manipulate you, try to get their claws in your head to still mess with your head.  They want to "stay friends." They will try to get their claws in on your friends as well - some friends you might just have to give up, because they are under his spell.  If you are still in the same social circles, you can still be civil but refrain from giving them any satisfaction - don't give them any information because they will use it against you.  [/quote]

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