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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You admit that you "probably do" take a contrarian stance all the time.  This gets old really fast.  My husband often does this, and sometimes it's so nitpicky or tangential that it feels like he's just looking for something to disagree on.  It does not feel loving, it feels like you don't respect the other person, you think you know better about everything, you're not on the same team ever.

You don't actually have to share every single thought in your brain.  It's not "walking on eggshells" not to share every single disagreement or criticism of your wife with her.  No one likes a know-it-all, no one likes the guy who plays devil's advocate all the time.

Also, if your wife says she likes the face cream, a normal person would just agree that she looks great.  [/quote]

A normal person would not spend $200 on face cream. While I think he sounds like a contrarian ass, I can’t fault him for being dubious about a $200 face cream and think anyone who would indulge that is off their rocker.[/quote]

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