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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OK, I just reread that and it was incredibly poorly written. Again, I was voice dictating that. The main argument is that my wife accuses me of never taking her side or overly disagreeing when she presents a point. My contention is that I don’t wanna walk on eggshells and if I don’t fuel at the point she’s making is valid I should be able to make a counterpoint or the opposite argument and hopefully we can remain friends. Anyway, she threaten divorce today when I said maybe it was because she got a lot of sleep last night rather than this face cream being the reason her skin looked so glowing today. My personal belief is that water, sleep, low stress is more effective than a face cream, but what do I know? I mean people are obsessed with Korean beauty products apparently. I am just skeptical than any of these face creams actually do all that much. I believe Botox would definitely work, but there are so many companies hocking so many products which is probably have little to no effect. Again, I am a man and I don’t use beauty products so I have no idea.[/quote]

My impression of the face cream story is that you regularly shut down your wife when she's excited about something.

We women know that beauty products aren't miracle products, but if the placebo effect it creates gives us a little pleasure in the moment, why does someone need to ruin it for us?

[b]Your wife was feeling content and confident that her skin looked good. Instead of letting her have her moment of happiness, you had to s**t all over it. [/b]

No, you don't need to walk on eggshells, but if you make a habit of doing this the person on the receiving end is going to feel dejected and like all you do is bring them down. [/quote]

It's not that you have to agree with her about everything.  But when the thing you choose to vocally disagree with her about is "wow my face looks really good, this cream was worth it!" consider that you might be a shitty husband.[/quote]

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