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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What does he say about why he can’t call as he’s walking to his car? [/quote]
[b]As I said, I’ve never asked. I always assume he’s on his way home, and he usually walks through the door at 6:30 sharp. [/b]

Should I honestly make him call every day and just assume I shouldn’t cook if he doesn’t call by 5:30? Is that the answer? If no call by 5:45, kids get nuggets and dad gets cereal? [/quote]

So how often has this actually happened, OP?

In any event, I think you also have failed to communicate. If you are having an overwhelmed day, YOU text him and say "I'm not cooking tonight."[/quote]
I communicate every time it happens! [b]I’m not his mother, [/b]I don’t expect him to tell me his whereabouts. [b]I do expect him to let me know not to cook[/b]. I’ve explained this to him. But yes today was too much, but that doesn’t negate the past or the future. I’m just frustrated. [/quote]

So you are his mother. Do what you have to do, and he can adapt, or not. It's his problem. There's really no reason you need to plan your behavior around adults who presumably know what time of day supper is served.[/quote]

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