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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Only an hour away shouldn't be a big deal. How often does he see them now? Can you offer to do all the transportation for the visits? [/quote] This. Also, if you can show that the move would benefit your kids, you will have a strong case if he sues for custody (and your case will already be strong because you are already primary parent and your job accommodates the kids better than his). Look at schools in your target area and see if you can find ones that really suit your kids. Look for homes that have kid friendly features (big yards, a rec room, etc.). Also, could the money you would save on mortgage payments go at least in part towards your kids? Activities or college savings? There is no reason for you to have to stay in a house you don’t feel you can afford, and it doesn’t sound like your ex actually wants custody, just to control your actions. I think you have the upper hand here.[/quote]
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