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Reply to "Just found out about my husband's second affair"
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[quote=Anonymous]Go to counseling, it sounds like you still love him, try to work through the issues. I disagree with PP's that this is black/white and that you should leave him. You need him to be psychologically evaluated and see what is going on. Make an informed decision. Have you read Harvel Hendrix's "Finding the Love to Keep" (or maybe it is "Keeping the Love you Find"). In any event... according to that book people repeat dating/marrying people with the same patterns subconsciously.... I think you want to work through his issues, and also see a therapist for yourself, so that if it doesn't work out in this marriage you have an action plan for yourself and "next steps" from the therapist... But I vote for not immediately assuming this isn't going to work. Def check counseling/therapy...[/quote]
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