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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She sounds like a sweet lady. I hope you find a more comfortable option for both your sakes.[/quote]

Strange comment since OP has not said anything to indicate she is sweet. She may be, but as I tell my daughter with reading comprehension, find me the quote that shows this. Being older does not make someone sweet in and of itself.

OP, I found with my mom first I give the benefit of the doubt and as someone mentioned have a polite and respectful conversation also showing empathy for her feelings. I am sure it probably is uncomfortable to wear them. If she still refuses-detatch. If she can't hear you, speak louder. If she says you are yelling, leave the room. It is not your fault she can't hear. She is being irrational to be upset you are yelling, when she can't hear you at a regular volume. I had to do this with my mother's mental health issues. Once I found out her outbursts and constant victimhood were not dementia related, it was up to her to get help. I had suggested it gently and respectfully without being condescending and she threw a fit. It is her choice not to treat her anxiety and depression, but I won't be her punhcing bag. I detach. Spend less time with her so you can enjoy the time you do spend with her more.[/quote]

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