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Reply to "Did anyone really want love and never got it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I really wanted love, but I’ve had a lot of trauma in my life and I eat for comfort and to soothe the really bad feelings, and this I’ve been fat for most of my adult life. So I haven’t been that attractive to potential partners. Lots of therapy, etc. but still have the pain and the unhealthy way of coping. I married a man who I thought would be a good partner...someone similarly wounded. Someone I thought I made happy. But he just turned his unhappiness on me once we married. He is miserable, angry, and unpleasant. He is living in some ways, like that he regularly cooks for us...he’s loving in actions. But he’s verbally unkind and gives us the silent treatment all the time. Not loving. But we have a child and that is more love than I’ve ever known. No one has ever loved me so much nor have I ever loved so fully. It’s not the kid of happiness I wished for, but it’s a love beyond my hopes. I just wish I could have give him a happier marriage to grow up in.[/quote]
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