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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I know this is going to sound like a meaningless trope. But it is 100% true that you must love yourself alone before expecting anyone else to love you alone.[/b] Searching for joy that only true love can bring attracts it in your environment. You can’t compromise on the woek you have to do for yourself to avoid fulfillment in others. See whAt uou can salvage in your dumpster, or what should be added to it, or what you both need to free to purchase instead. Yes, there is a future in love no matter where you stand in life. They all take work and some level of vulnerability and risk of failure.[/quote] This IS a meaningless trope. You should have stopped there. It's meaningless drivel. Plenty of people figure out who they are as they go along, often IN a marriage. Also, people change and grow. There is no one "you" that you need to discover and then learn to love. OP, you don't mention that you love your husband, only that you don't think he loves you. If you love him, keep trying.[/quote] This. I met my husband when I was 19. I’ve changed dramatically since then. But we’re still happily married. I think this is the key to a happy marriage: do you love your husband? And, do you treat him with love? Most women expect to be showered with love without actually showering their husband with love. [/quote]
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