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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Same here. It sucks so bad.

I’ve just decided to live my life. I don’t watch what I say anymore or walk on eggshells. If he gets upset I don’t engage.  If he wants something different for dinner, I make it for myself and let him feed the kids. No vacations for now due to COVID, but if we were, I’d just plan my own vacation. I make my own weekend plans.

He’s not happy about it, but at least he’s stopped arguing with me over everything. My guess is that within the next year he’ll meet someone, have an affair, and ask for a divorce. Which is fine with me. [/quote]

I hope you did tell him that as a result of his behavior, this is what you're doing. [/quote]

I didn’t, because that would make it sound like me just living my life is a punishment. There’s nothing wrong with me saying the things I want to say and doing the things I want to do. It also implies that if he behaves better, I’ll get back in line and give up the things I want. [/quote]

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