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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What some people deem as sarcasm is actually just meanspirited. Good sarcastic jokes involve intelligence and wit and are just saying hurtful or backhanded things.

So consider that.

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OP here. Well, it's not even just that. I get that. I know myself and my faults. But it's more than that. It's his s%it doesn't stink. It's completely different personalities. It's I won't forgive you and he won't ever say he's sorry. He can say something mean, and I go back at him and how dare I for saying that!!

It's I say black, he says white. I'm going to make the kids sandwiches, no I'm going to pick up Chinese food for them. It's I want to go to Argentina, he says Florida because his friends are there. That's the problem. [b]We're not synchronous at heart[/b]. A friend offended him horribly a few days ago and he let it roll off his shoulders. I'm having a bad day, don't want to do something and I'm an awful wife immediately. [/quote]

Oh okay, it's a long-standing more complicated issue. But to the bold, I think it's a myth that most couples are synchronous at heart and just are magically always in agreeance, it takes compromise and giving in, not to say that you should just give in.

IT seems there's some deep issues, an I would suggest couples therapy, specifically to address communication if you plan to stay together.[/quote]

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