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[quote=Anonymous][quote=ThatSmileyFaceGuy]So after at least 8 years, (7 married and at least one dating/engaged), he misses the butterflies. Not to sound mean but that's life.

What you and he need to realize is that the emotional butterflies of new love should have been replaced with the cozy warm feeling of a life and love shared. [/quote]

Agree. Imagine if we never left that feeling of the first three months of meeting/dating our spouse. I for one didn't eat and hardly sleep for much of those times - too lovesick. I spent a great deal of time and energy with him. There were work nights we didn't sleep, etc. Now imagine trying to raise kids, advance your career, hold up other relationships with friends and family, and other societal obligations if you always had that feeling. Sounds AWFUL!

It is natural to get comfortable and there is a beauty in being able to "take for granted" that you will see that person all the time. Sure, it was fun and sex with a new person sounds appealing at times but not really feasible for raising a family and growing old together.[/quote]

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