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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My friend is getting married in my home town in a couple of weeks. I was planning on coming for the weekend, bringing my 2 kids, and staying at my parents' house Friday and Saturday nights. The bride wants us all to stay in her hotel room with her the night before the wedding and is "disappointed" that I won't be there. Aside from not wanting to be away from my boys overnight, I am allergic to cats and dogs and the bride/bridesmaids all have pets. Even spending a couple of hours with them leaves me wheezing and itchy. I even break out in hives on my face if I give a cat owner a kiss on the cheek! I do not want to be a red puffy wheezy bridesmaid walking down the aisle on wedding day. At the same timne, I feel bad[b]. Maybe I should just suck it up because I know she is really nervous about her wedding day and could use my support. [/b]I am her most "sane" bridesmaid (though I'm not the MOH) and I'm the best at "talking her down." Ugh. WWYD?[/quote]

Umm.  If she's that nervous about it, maybe she shouldn't be getting married?  I'm only being a little tongue in cheek here.

And agree with all the previous posters - maybe try to go back for a few hours that night in the hotel bar, you're not being a bad bridesmaid for not spending the night.  And that's not even taking the into account your allergies.[/quote]

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