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[quote=Anonymous]Here is the key: She is getting married. She has NO idea what it means to have a family and family responsibilities. You are NOT a bad bridesmaid for not being there all weekend. I assume you bought the dress and many other things that being a bridesmaid requires. Most importantly, you are her friend and always will be - THAT is a good bridesmaid. Someday, when she has kids, you'll explain to her why you weren't there the whole weekend and she'll get it. This happened just recently to me. I was 8 weeks pregnant at my cousin's wedding (wasn't telling anyone yet). My cousin gave me a VERY hard time for "leaving early" at 10:30pm. (Hello first trimester EXHAUSTION). So when she got pregnant among other things we talked about I told her that's why I left her wedding early and she finally got it. Sometimes a person has to walk a mile in your shoes before they get it...[/quote]
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