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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d just tell her that you handled the reimbursement with the VA and they paid you the $2k or whatever then thank her for letting you know about it. Her reaction will be telling; if she gets upset you handled it yourself, you’ll know it was just about the money. [/quote] I usually don't suggest or promote lying, but this is an interesting take. If you told her you put the expenses on a credit card, and you paid off some (not all) of the expenses with the reimbursement money, then there is no "money" per se for her to take. It's not like it is sitting in the bank accounts -- it was used to wipe out some debt, and you have still more debt untouched. I just wonder what she would say. [/quote]
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