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[quote=Anonymous]Just before I married DH, someone I thought was a friend did something that cost me $60k over the next 5 years. As part of our pre-Cana marriage sessions, DH said one thing he struggled with was my difficulty in forgiving her and how difficult it made life since we were part of a small social group. At his urging, I forgave her and we began group socializing again. Never just us and Larla, but not avoiding events I knew she’d attend. Then for the next 5 years, I wrote the checks. As the reality of what she did to me moved from theoretical to a gaping hole in our finances, DH began to pay closer attention to all of her supposed mistakes and oversights that impacted others. One night, returning from a child-centered event, he turned to me and said “Larla is just an awful person. I was wrong to push you to let her back into your life.” [/quote]
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