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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's age-dependent in some respects. When baby was younger (4 months-8 months), I think checks helped. She would get so insanely riled up that she couldn't sleep. She just didn't have good coping mechanisms. However, she's older now (14 months) and the checks just stir her up. She's able to self-soothe, and she doesn't actually "need" us-- she just wants to continue hanging out. [/quote] I agree. I had a friend who did no checks and then came in the next morning seeing her child covered in vomit. When the child is older, you can differentiate cries between loneliness and actual need to be cleaned up.[/quote] That can happen to anyone though. I checked on DD before going to bed and in the morning she was covered in vomit. She just didn't cry I guess (we are light sleepers). Shared the shit out of us because she wasn't even rolling yet! Just laying on her back vomiting. [/quote]
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