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[quote=Anonymous]You are not alone when feeling like this. Most of us go thru these feelings.

Ae you able to talk to a divorce lawyer and at least get an idea of how things will be split up before you rule out divorce? He will still need to provide support for your son and maybe he will responsible for more than you think.

Don't worry about the inheritance - you were estranged - and you were not owed that money - he can do whatever he wants with it. Might not make sense, but it is his right.

Make new friends - I know - much easier said than done. Attend church - at the least - it will be a weekly habit that can replace your job as the place to go to when you need to disengage from life. Not into church? join a meetup doing an activity you like to do. Just go to the meetup site and do a search for meet ups in your area and then sign up. Some are more active than others..I do a yoga one which has been great.

Take a class - look at your county recreation  catalog (Montgomery county has one for sure) and sign up for an inexpensive class. They have swimming, fitness, dance, cooking and most of them only run a couple months, once a week. A good way to get out, meet new people and learn something new.

I don't have any suggestions for your son - can his teacher give you some recommendations?

OP - I have had some rough patches - and I still do, but not nearly as much. I was told, in a not so gentle way, that I am responsible for me and my happiness. Life is short and it is my responsibilty to make it the best that i can. I have wasted 5 years of my life already sad about something that just wasn't meant to be.
It was the wake up call I needed. I really try and focus on the positive (and you will be able to find something positive in your life). I try and work out and that has helped. I am slowly changing my perspective on parts of my life that I am not happy with (and don't have control over!). I wish you the best!
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