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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]honestly I think the best thing to do is to figure out whether there's potential and then set a quick coffee date or drink. DO NOT do endless text and chatting and do not have too much build up. half those guys are married or trying to figure out if you are up for a fwb/ons. The people who want to be in a relationship (even if not serious at this point) or even companionship will be willing to meet.

figure you will go on several coffee or date drinks a week, keep them short unless there's chemistry and interest. If you're not interested, pay half the tab (I always kept 20$s on me dating), say thank you and be clear if there's follow up that you're not interested "THanks! It was lovely to meet you and learn more about you; however I dont sense a romantic connection. Best of luck!"

doing this you will weed out creeps and marrieds and then you just have to find someone who you like enough to stay for a second drink or grab dinner.

as for what to say: be honest . "Recently divorced so looking primarily for companionship. Not interested in jumping into a serious LTR or one night stands."

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Is it generally acceptable as the woman to offer a coffee date? Or do I need to wait for the man to offer?[/quote] You're a modern woman! Ask for what you want!![/quote]

No, Op. Don't do that, unless you're desperate. Which you're not. They will ask you, be patient.[/quote] Oh stop! You get 0% of what you don't ask for. Take charge of your life and ask for what you want. Stop waiting for life to happen to you and make life happen.[/quote]

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