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[quote=Anonymous]I have been struggling with an issue for the past couple of years: my spouse and I are at completely different fitness levels. While this has always been the case, the disparity has never been this great. I've always been more fit, but since our engagement/wedding, I've gotten more fit and my spouse has gone the opposite direction. I love my spouse all the same, but I can't pretend that there hasn't been a drop off in physical attraction because of it. I feel like I'm the only one making a good effort to remain physically attractive (although it is as much for myself as my spouse). I am also concerned for my spouse as there are numerous health issues to think about when we get older. I don't know how to bring this up in a way that doesn't hurt my spouse's feelings. But I find myself less frequently wanting to have sex, which makes me feel guilty, but doesn't change that fact. Has anyone else been able to successfully broach this subject with minimal fallout?[/quote]
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