Reply to Help with coparenting when spouse is leaving for AP

Forum Index » Parenting -- Special Concerns

Reply to "Help with coparenting when spouse is leaving for AP"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There is no way to make this into what you imagine what coparenting should be as you are still hurt by the cheating. Once you move on emotionally, you may be able to do it.

I was a child of divorce under the same circumstances as you (dad cheated and immediately moved in with other woman) and about 2 years later he ingratiated himself into my mother life and we all spent Hollidays together. He and his new wife would even sleep in my house (mom's and mine) during those times.

I was very happy with the situation but even then, I realized it was not the best for my mother and now I cringe just thinking of it.

Starting at around 13/14 I realized what an asshole my father was regarding this situation - even though I still loved him and wanted to spend time with him, it was a good eye opener. He was a selfish asshole who wanted to make and eat his cake too.

God, I wish he was still alive so I could tell him all I think about him.

Anyway, just do a clean break - it will be best for your kids in the long run. [/quote]

OP here - Thanks, PP. I'm really sorry about your experience. Cheaters don't seem to think their kids will be affected by their behavior. It's just one of the multitude of character flaws they possess. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics