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[quote=Anonymous]I am sorry you had to go through this. A few years ago my husband had one. He had therapy, i was in therapy at the time, we are much better and closer. Year one was like having ptsd, very hard. To answer your question. Complete trust? No. I rarely get triggered now....but I can. By innocent things....a new female single neighbor we befriend, if he is in a distant mood, a movie on infidelity. We talk about it. I feel it, tell him if I can't get a handle on it myself, most of the time I can. (But i have had a lot of therapy). It might sound hard to understand...that we are better from it, that it was also the deepest pain I ever knew and that we moved forward, but no I know what he was capable of and his weaknesses. I forgave, but I live with it and I trust him enough....but not in the innocent way I did before, no. That is what died. But we also are stronger, healthier and wiser.[/quote]
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