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[quote=Anonymous]Can you take a second job on days you don’t have custody? Is there some other equity you can trade for equity in the house? Equity in retirement? Will refinancing in your own name get you a lower rate? What is going to happen with his move? Is he moving out of town? Why don’t you believe you will get much child support? Are you already in the lowest tier home in your school’s zone? Can you trade down to another house in zone that is less expensive and needs work or kids has fewer beds/baths? 10 years out from my divorce, I will say that always being at the edge of not being able to cover bills in an area that is wealthy is a huge stressor. I put a lot of money into a house but that left very little money for fun and vacations which is sort of the glue that holds you together as a new family unit.[/quote]
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