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[quote=Anonymous]I know this is an older thread, but expressing some gratitude for the PP.  Clearly I've been reading old posts to try and find inspiration after a failed FET and cancelled FET.  I've been trying to reframe how I look at recurrent disappointment in the face of positive medical predictions.  We're in the Shady Grove Shared Risk program and our first FET failed and the second cycle was canceled because I didn't respond enough to the estrogen.  We're going back to the drawing board and I have felt so dejected and frustrated.  One of the hardest things for me is that my doctor keeps being So Optimistic.  She keeps saying we just fall on the wrong side of the stats (we also did many IUIs with no luck and then had success, but MC at 8 weeks).  And it makes me have this weird cognitive dissonance because she's a doctor and I want to believe her when she says the odds are good.  Because it hasn't worked.  So reading this framing was helpful - sometimes the dice rolls the wrong way and we've just had a lot of bad luck.  Compared to others we are still pretty nascent in our journey and I know it will be a long haul.

OP - I don't have success stories to share, just support and solidarity.  I hope you have had luck since you first posted![/quote]

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