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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My husband and I earn the same amount - before anyone starts to say I am a SAHM or some BS. I work full-time as a nurse manager in a hospital and am also going to school to complete my MSN.

I've had it with my husbands fishing and hunting trips. He has gone on 4 in the past 2 months. He is only home every other weekend. I am so tired. He left the garbage bins at the end of our driveway when he normally brings them in. He left me a completely overflowing garbage in the morning he left and full dishwasher (normally his job!)- when our nanny came in she so helpfully pointed out to me that these two things needed to be done. Which I did, right before I was trying to leave for work.

I have been chasing our toddler the entire weekend, studying until 11:30PM at night. I had a sitter come this morning from 8-12. My son was up at 6. I am exhausted. I haven't had a chance to shower. My son, of course, falls asleep at 10. Sleeps for half the time the sitter is here. I will be chasing him all afternoon and won't be able to get the rest of the homework that I planned on doing, or tidying up the house or getting anything done. When my husband is coming home later this evening from his FOURTH weekend away in two short months.

WHY is the burden always on me? Why is my husband so completely useless? He can never decide what to make for dinner - it's always "pizza", when I ask him what he wants. He is a 12 year old boy. Sure, I will take care of our son without any breaks, every other weekend, keep the house clean, make sure there's groceries in the fridge and the sitter and housekeeper are paid and happy.

Then my husband will inevitably come home and complain that I spent too much money on online shopping (which is my ONLY vice) - when he just spent around $400 on new gear and various crap for his stupid hunting trips.

[b]I need a weekend alone in an isolated cabin. Except our son will not go down at night with my husband. [/b]

I now get why some parents just want to run away. The overwhelming responsibility of my job, school, my son, and cleaning up my husbands inadequacies in his absence are exhausting.[/quote][/quote]

Okay, you’re doing this to yourself. Your son will not be awake for 48 hours. You need to leave and let them work it out. It will be fine if they eat pizza for every meal and bedtime takes a while. [/quote]

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