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[quote=Anonymous]Are you a private person, or do you like to have emotional experiences with relative strangers? You will get to know your doula somewhat, but she will still be a new person in your life. I hired a doula for my first pregnancy but in hindsight it was not the right decision for me - I am a very private person and constantly felt the need to "entertain" her or "perform" for her or something. This was not her fault - she was a lovely person who has successfully doula'd for many other people. If you already know you are getting an epidural, I am going to say you really don't need a doula. The nurses at your hospital and your husband will do a fine job of helping you change positions, get you ice chips, whatever. As for anxiety about going to the hospital, you can also review that with your dr beforehand, and call the hospital throughout early labor with updates. You will be fine.[/quote]
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