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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have some answers for you.

First, "training" is hard work, and not every woman is cut out to "train" other people just by dint of being female.  I grew up in a household where my dad actually did the bulk of the housework and a lot of childcare (probably 50% after the baby stage) so I literally just did not ever think I would be in the position of "training" someone to do what they should already be doing anyway.

Second, many  men are jerks who don't take correction, ESPECIALLY by women, well.  The DH ends up training the DW, either through direct aggression or continued passive aggression.  My DH would bite my f-in head off if I ever asked him to re-clean the bathroom.  Or, he'd just continually do a half-*ss job no matter what I said. Eventually you just get tired of that or it's easier to just do it yourself or accept it the way it is.

if I ever said "you're being a huge baby right now and it's really unattractive. Adults suck it up and get it done rather than whine" I would get a torrent of abuse in response, calling me a nag, a b*tch, and pointing out any number of completely irrelevant things that I do wrong.

Yes, we are working on a divorce.  [/quote]

Are you me?? This is exactly what I went through.

I didn’t sign up for training a grown ass man. [/quote]

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