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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, OP, you sound like his Mother.  Your way of teaching your DH to clean the bathroom is how I teach my sons.  My DH knows how to clean a bathroom better than I do by learning from his Mother.  If your DH is not cleaning the bathroom to your standards, then you should be the one with that chore, or you should learn to accept the way he does it.  I mean, you can tell him you don't think it's clean enough, and if he wants you to teach him, then go for it, but don't think it helps any relationship to treat your partner like a child.[/quote]

This, although I think some couples really revel in this dynamic.  Usually it's the woman who looooves to call the husband out on his crap, and he enjoys being called out.  I'd rather not be married at all than interact my with my spouse like he's my child.  I *loathe* the "busting his/her chops" dynamic with the heat of a thousand suns.

So, yeah, OP.  What you don't understand is that couples are different.[/quote]

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